How to love yourself: by being a part of the body posi community on tumblr I’ve learned a lot in how to love my self! The things that has proven to be the most useful for me are 1. If you have low self esteem act like you have the highest self esteem after a while your self esteem will grow 2. Never take bullshit from anyone, also calling people out on their bullshit and body shaming feels incredibly good 3. Fat is not a bad word, fat does not mean ugly, stupid, lazy ect fat is just that, fat 4. Dress the way you want to break the rules you are fat therefor you will look fat in anything! 5. you don’t have to cover up just because it’s not “flattering” god damn it if people find your body offensive they are the problem, not your body. 6. You already have a bikini body. People are going to see my rolls, fat thighs, scars and my wobbly stomach this summer and I couldn’t care less. I am not interested in sweating and being over heated this summer just because people doesn’t like my body and think I should cover up. This my body not yours!